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Asgard was discussing the so-called "Earth Defense Plan". This time, Thor, who had been listless, also joined the heated discussion.
Of all the Asgardians, Thor is the most sentimental towards Earth.
After all, this guy had lived on Earth for more than a year and had a girlfriend, but she soon broke up with him... In fact, it was almost inevitable that he and Jane would break up.
To say something that is extremely incorrect: Marriage should actually be between people of equal social status!
"If the water is too clear, there will be no fish; if the person is too strict, there will be no followers." This old saying reveals a profound truth - too extreme standards often bring unnecessary obstacles, and everything in life needs to be balanced between moderation. In marriage, the most important thing is to find a suitable "partner" in this balance. No matter how beautiful love is, it will eventually face the test of reality. Marriage is not just the union of two people, it is also the fusion of two families, involving not only feelings, but also the fit of family background, lifestyle, values and many other aspects.
The traditional concept of being well matched is not just about matching in terms of material aspects, but also about matching in terms of education, social status, cultural background, etc. In real life, the success of many marriages depends not only on the intensity of love, but more on whether the two parties have similar life foundations and values. Marriages between well matched families are often more stable and lasting. They help both parties avoid many conflicts caused by background differences and build relatively harmonious family relationships. In today's society, there seems to be a certain contradiction between the freedom of love and the reality of marriage. Some people believe that love can break everything, but after experiencing a series of disharmonious marriages, we have to admit that an ideal marriage requires not only the deep affection of two people, but also the understanding and support of both families. Only on the basis of being well matched can a marriage have less friction and more stability. Next, we will explain the importance of "being well matched" to marriage from three aspects to help us more clearly realize that when choosing a marriage partner, reason and reality cannot be ignored.
"Similar backgrounds can bring people closer together." In marriage, the family backgrounds of both parties often have a subtle influence on the marriage. Many people regard marriage as the union of two people, but in fact it is more like the fusion of two families. Everyone's growth environment and educational background are shaping his cognition and values of the world. If the background gap between two people is too large, many differences are likely to arise, whether in living habits, attitudes towards people, or views on money and career. For example, if one party comes from a family that values family and responsibility, and the other party comes from a free and irresponsible family, friction may occur after marriage due to different expectations of each other for family roles. On the contrary, marriages between people of equal status can often avoid these problems. Because the two people have similar family backgrounds, many details and habits in life are similar, and everyone's tacit understanding is easier to achieve. Whether it is the matching of rhythms or the recognition of lifestyles, it can lay a solid foundation for the long-term development of marriage.
"A family of scholars, a talented scholar and a beautiful woman." This is a beautiful expectation of marriage in ancient times, emphasizing the impact of education and cultural background matching on marital relationships. Education level not only determines a person's knowledge reserve, but also has a more profound impact on his way of thinking and the perspective he takes on problems. In marriage, if the thinking patterns of two people are highly compatible, they can communicate and understand each other better. People with similar educational backgrounds are more likely to resonate, understand each other's ideas, and reduce unnecessary misunderstandings.
Imagine if there is a big gap in the cultural level of two people, one of them may be more rational and thoughtful in many choices in life and career, while the other may make some decisions that lack depth due to lack of sufficient knowledge and vision, which will bring greater pressure to the marriage. On the contrary, a marriage between people of equal status can allow two people to have more common language and understanding in career planning, family management, etc., and mutual support and recognition will also make the relationship between the two parties deeper.
"The economic base determines the superstructure." This sociological theory tells us that economic conditions are not only a reflection of living standards, but also a key factor affecting the stability of marriage. Although many people believe that love should be the most important component of marriage, in reality, economic disparity often becomes a major hidden danger in marriage. If one party is in better economic conditions and the other is relatively weaker, they will inevitably face economic pressure in their married life. One party may feel that life is not free enough, while the other party may feel that their self-esteem is damaged. In addition to the economic differences, sometimes it even affects the right of both parties to speak in family decision-making, resulting in conflicts.
Relatively speaking, a marriage between people of equal status will be more balanced. The economic conditions of both parties are similar, and the financial burden of married life can be shared more fairly. It is also easier for both parties to reach an agreement on their living standards and consumption habits, thus reducing the unhappiness caused by economic problems. This economic balance not only reduces the pressure in the marriage, but also enhances the confidence of both parties in the future.
"Details determine success or failure." The happiness of a marriage is often revealed in the details. Differences in family background, education level, and economic conditions will gradually show their influence in daily life. Therefore, when we choose a marriage partner, we cannot simply rely on the impulse of love, but should consider the compatibility of factors such as family background, cultural differences, and economic conditions from a long-term perspective. A marriage between people of equal status is never a compromise of love, but a rational choice of marriage.
Love is beautiful, but marriage is a business that needs to be managed together. When two families, two cultures, and two values meet, it is particularly important to be well-matched. Only on this basis can the marriage be more stable and the couple can move forward on a common track. Choosing a suitable partner is not only an emotional decision, but also a guarantee of the quality of life in the future. In marriage, we need a balance between rationality and sensibility. Only by truly understanding the importance of being well-matched can we make our marriage life happier and more lasting.
In fact, there are indeed some people who choose people who are much better than themselves in all aspects, or much worse. At first, these two people love each other and like each other very much, so there are not too many problems. But once the feelings fade one day and they spend a long time together, problems will arise. If you are climbing up, you will feel insecure in front of the other party, always be looked down upon, live with less dignity, always need to sacrifice, endure, and will not be happy at all. If you choose someone who is not as good as you, your heart will gradually become unbalanced, and you will unconsciously feel a little superior, thinking that the other party is not worthy of you, and then you will not go to treat him well. There are too many inequalities, and in that relationship, both parties really have a bad life later. When the conditions of two people are quite different, one party can treat each other equally and always respect the other party, and the other party can not be inferior and always have a sense of high matching, then it is really good, and it will only be very unbalanced. Most people are just vulgar people, and their hearts are not so balanced. In marriage, in the end, it all comes down to each other's strength. Only when both parties have equal strength can there be true equality. No one has to look up to anyone else, and no one has to suppress anyone else. They can cooperate well and pursue win-win results.
Different growth environments will always develop different personalities, different cognitions, and different living habits. People who are good in all aspects will naturally live better. In terms of habits, they will also be particular and pursue better things, and naturally have some advantages. On the contrary, people who are average in all aspects and are quite poor will naturally appear more cramped in terms of consumption and in dealing with many things due to the limitations of conditions. There will be great differences between each other. After living for so many years, it is not so easy to change.
Therefore, when two people with big differences live under the same roof, it is easy for many problems to arise. They can't stand each other, don't think they have done anything wrong, and are unwilling to cooperate with each other. Over time, big problems will naturally arise, and it will be difficult to live together.
When two people who are similar in all aspects have similar growth backgrounds, similar understandings of many things, and similar living habits, everything will go smoothly. No one has to make changes or give up their habits, but they are relatively consistent. They can both be themselves and be comfortable together, which is often the premise for a harmonious relationship.
When it comes to being well matched, the most important thing is the spiritual aspect, rather than the material aspect. In other words, two people can talk to each other, their souls are similar, they can understand each other, and they can always talk to each other and communicate in a friendly manner. In a marriage, being able to understand each other is always very important. When neither of them can understand the other, and no one understands what the other is saying or what the other means, these two people will quarrel at first, thinking that the other does not understand them, and then they will just be silent with each other. Simply stop seeking recognition, stop seeking understanding, rely entirely on guessing, and have no desire to talk to each other. When things get to this point, the marriage is almost dead in name only. In real life, too many marriages are often like this, but they are just maintaining the appearance, and it is very painful. Even so, it may be possible to make do, but it is really too exhausting. It is better to be able to talk to each other, understand each other's words, and connect with each other. Such a marriage will not be so lonely, there will be laughter in the room, and the atmosphere between the two people will be more relaxed. It is not formalism, but a true resonance of souls, living in the depths of each other's hearts. For most people, it is better to find a partner who is well matched.
They are similar in every aspect, with a little difference, and then they like each other and have a good relationship. They are together in an equal manner, enter into marriage in an equal manner, and treat each other equally. No one needs to say they owe each other, and no one needs to say sorry. A good marriage, at the very least, is that both parties are in an equal position, truly regard each other as the same as themselves, and give each other recognition and respect. That is the premise of everything and the key to two people getting along well. Any imbalance, even if the conditions are similar, but someone is psychologically unbalanced, will only lead to many problems.
Of course, many things cannot be so absolute.
Of course, there are couples who are not well matched in terms of family background but can share spiritual connection, but they are definitely very rare!
And definitely not with Jane and Thor.
They are not even of the same species!
After Thor awakened his divinity, his basic lifespan reached five thousand years. If he could go one step further and become as powerful as Odin, it would not be impossible for him to live for more than ten thousand years.
And what about Jane?
Asgard's technology couldn't keep her alive that long.
The theoretical life span of human beings is about 120 years old. Some studies have concluded that this is equivalent to 5 to 7 times the growth and development period of a person. On the one hand, the length of life span is restricted by social and economic conditions and the level of health and medical care, and there are great differences in different societies and periods. On the other hand, due to individual differences in physique, genetic factors, living habits, living conditions, etc., the length of life span of individuals varies greatly.
This is determined by the genes of the human species!
According to current research, the reason why humans age is affected by these three factors: telomere shortening, DNA damage, and free radicals. In junior high school, we learned that genes are on chromosomes, and at both ends of chromosomes, there is something like a cap, which is the telomere. Its function is to ensure the integrity of the chromosome. If the telomere length is reduced to a certain length, the cell will start the withering mechanism and let the cell die. Therefore, telomeres are also called: the mitotic clock of cell life. When cells undergo mitosis, the DNA double helix structure will be untied under the action of helicase, and then the DNA will be copied one by one under the action of DNA polymerase, and two completely identical DNA double helices will be formed. However, when DNA polymerase is working, it cannot completely copy the sequence of the telomere. Only special telomerase can copy the sequence of the telomere. This causes the telomeres at both ends of the DNA to decrease by 3-30 bases every time DNA replicates itself. As the length of the telomere shortens, DNA will easily make mistakes when it replicates itself, which will cause cell aging. When the telomere shortens to a critical point, the cell will age faster and eventually wither. Scientists have found that telomeres are longer in adolescents and shorter in the elderly, so telomeres may be an important function that leads to human aging and death. If we can find a way to stop telomeres from shortening, perhaps humans will not age. But unfortunately, cancer has found a way before humans. In cancer cells, the telomerase in their bodies is abnormally active. This enzyme can ensure that the telomere length does not shorten, so cancer cells will not age.
So theoretically, humans cannot achieve immortality, because even if your cells can continue to divide, cancer will still take your life!
One hundred and twenty years old versus five thousand years old... For Thor, Jane died of old age before he even had the time to enjoy life with her!
In this case, there is no future (in fact, Marvel also thinks so, so Jane died of cancer!)