OBS Chapter 629: Lack of Sense of Security
Chapter 629: Lack of Sense of Security
Soon, the children came back and the family had another reunion dinner.
It was a rare occasion for Wang Panpan's child to see his parents, so he ignored them and, despite being so grown up, just hugged the little old man and woman in front of him.
"Dad, Mom, why did you come back just now? Do you have to stay here forever? I'll go clean up your room now, okay?" Tangtang said firmly but sadly.
Her eyes were moist. She hadn't seen her parents for a long time. The fact that they spend less time together and more time apart is not only true between couples, but also between children.
Although my grandparents are always around, and my uncles, aunts and uncles are there to accompany me, there are many things that really need to be given by my biological parents.
The three children are actually very insecure, and the happiness they had in their childhood has been supporting them as they grow up.
But all children, no matter how old they are, are still children in front of their parents.
Wang Panpan looked at Ruan Xiao at a loss. How should she answer?
Ruan Xiao had no other options, but in the end he still took on the responsibility that a man should have, hugged his daughter in front of him, and said comfortingly: "Tangtang, Daddy's work is not finished yet, please wait a little longer, I will always be with you in the future."
"Yes, Tangtang. When mom and dad are done with their work, maybe you will find us annoying." Wang Panpan hurried to school and hugged her daughter, because her daughter looked so pitiful, wanting to cry but not crying.
Moreover, these grievances were caused by herself. Wang Panpan even reflected on whether she had done anything wrong.
"Woooo..."
As expected, the child didn't get the answer he wanted and started crying.
"Sister, why are you crying?" Tiaotiao suddenly came in and saw her sister's appearance. She didn't care about anything else and complained, and quickly pushed her parents away.
Boys seem to be born stronger, so what seems to be difficult for his sister to let go is actually very normal in his eyes, because everyone has something they want to pursue.
Just like my eldest brother is interested in the army, he goes to train whenever he has time, and now he has become a soldier.
And my second sister likes to do business.
I want to inherit my father's business and think my father is very capable.
He understands and respects his family members. He becomes the lubricant of the family, comforting this and that. He is the most caring little baby.
Gradually, Wang Panpan and the girl kept crying in the house, and no matter how her husband and son tried to comfort them, it was useless.
Wang Panpan choked up and said, "Tangtang, I'm sorry, it was because of my selfishness that I didn't firmly choose to stay by your side.
But don't worry, Mom will never do it again. Are you willing to give Mom a chance to improve?"
In fact, the daughter has already grown up, but in the eyes of her parents, she is just a little girl who wants candy.
"Mom, I miss you, I miss you very much. I know you are very busy, but you are always busy and have no time to accompany me. Many times I am tired and there are thunders in the sky. I can only hold the little pillow and go to my brother. I keep crying and my brother keeps comforting me. I feel so wronged.
Although I know I should support you, I am just a child and I want my parents to be with me.
Woo hoo…”
The more I talk about the past, the more wronged I feel.
Wang Panpan looked at her son helplessly, with a look of seeking help, which made people love her. Ruan Xiao received this look in time and hugged the mother and daughter into his arms.
The embrace is proof enough.
Wait until the kids finally quiet down.
Wang Panpan and Ruan Xiao are ready to have a good talk with the kids.
Wang Panpan felt helpless and felt that she was not doing her job well as a mother.
She never knew that her child was so wronged, and she was unaware of these things, and no adults in the circle told her.
Is it that the child has been holding it in his heart?
She doubted it.
She asked anxiously, "Tangtang, you have so many grievances, why didn't you tell your mother earlier?
If you have any problems, just tell me and I will definitely help you solve them. You know, mom loves you guys the most.
There is no one else but you, so how could I not listen to your opinions?
It’s all my fault for not receiving your opinions in time.”
With red eyes and full of apology, Wang Panpan looked at her child and felt very uneasy. She didn't know how to compensate the child for his loss.
Because a long time has passed. The children's grievances have settled down, and she can clearly feel their anxiety.
Tangtang raised her head shyly. She felt that she was being too pretentious today. Everyone has their own life. Before her mother became a mother, she was a great doctor!
It was obvious that my aunt and grandmother had already made it clear, but now they have to find fault with my mother.
Well, I have wasted my good time.
So, the first thing I said was an apology: “Mom, you didn’t do anything wrong and I don’t blame you. I just couldn’t figure it out for a moment and felt a little wronged.
You are doing something very meaningful, and I am willing to follow your lead and continue doing this in the future.
Mom, don't forget that the Medicine Ancestor said long ago that I was her successor. Mom, you are the first successor, spreading the knowledge of medicine and helping thousands of people. And I will not fall behind. I am very interested in this matter and have been working hard.
Mom, you don’t blame me, so how could I blame you?
Also, don't mind my hypocrisy, I'm much better now, and I won't be like this in the future."
The daughter's understanding made the couple even more sad. They knew their child was good, but they didn't know she could be so outstanding, so empathetic, and able to see the suffering in the world.
Wang Panpan was both moved and scared.
"Tangtang, what mom does is what she wants to do. If you have something you like, go after it. You don't have to follow the path mom has taken.
My daughter is unique.
She is kind and beautiful. Whenever she is around, all her mother sees is beauty.
So, daughter, let's forgive each other." Wang Panpan didn't want some unfounded things to damage the child's spirit.
Apologies and forgiveness are very common in their lives, but there shouldn't be such a distance between parents and children.
Wang Panpan decided to talk it out thoroughly, and then slept in the same bed with her daughter, talking to them slowly and understanding her daughter's growth process over the years.
Of course, Ruan Xiao can’t be wrong as a father, Tiaotiao has welcomed a caring father.
The next day, all the dissatisfaction disappeared, and the grievances no longer existed. Children need to be enlightened and guided to grow up slowly.
During these processes, parents will also gain a lot of sense of accomplishment, especially for these smart children who can understand things quickly.
Wang Panpan couldn't help but sigh that it was not she who was protecting the children, but the children who gave her unlimited motivation.